There has long been a stigma when it comes to men’s mental health. Traditionally, men are taught to be tough and not show their emotions, but JJ Weaver has a message. “You can be tough, but you’re still going to cry.”
Weaver, a redshirt junior and star outside linebacker for the Kentucky Wildcats has had to battle and overcome on and off the field the last two years.
Following a redshirt season in 2019, Weaver’s father, Terrance Weaver, was murdered during a home robbery in June 2020. In response, JJ poured everything he had into football to distract himself from the pain and grief, but nine games into an impressive season he suffered a torn ACL.
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Without football, Weaver no longer had that primary emotional outlet and was faced with the challenges of grieving the loss of his father as well as coming back from a major knee injury.
“I wasn’t myself,” said Weaver during last week’s media day. “It took me a while to open up. I couldn’t play football and my father just got killed. I am a young black man and I was going through it.”
Through the pain and hurt, Weaver felt the need to reach out and he let pride aside and did just that. “One night, it really hit me. I was crying in my room and I called Coach White [Brad] at 3 o’clock in the morning. I needed to talk to somebody,” said Weaver.
With Weaver open to receiving help, the Kentucky staff was able to get Weaver into therapy and helped him find a therapist he related with, and helped him cope with the trauma he had endured.
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Along with a professional therapist, Weaver noted that he leaned on former teammate Josh Paschal, who overcame a cancer diagnosis during his time at Kentucky. “He [Paschal] took me underneath his wing… He took me to church sometimes, just knowing what I was going through. He had to work on his mental health just as I was.”
Still attending therapy, Weaver is in a much better place emotionally and is now able to reflect and is an advocate for mental health. “I wish everybody would just talk to somebody,” Weaver said. “A lot of my friends back home, they don’t know how to cope with things.”
Weaver has also made it a point to use his experience and to help his teammates, saying, “They know and I tell them, ‘Talk to me if you need anything. Just talk to me. I’m here for you.’”
Weaver made his return to the field last season, being named the Mayo Clinic Comeback Player of the Year and Third-Team All-SEC by Phil Steele, but was still missing some of his explosiveness.
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This Spring, Weaver took off his knee brace for the first time since his injury and defensive coordinator Brad White took note. “You can see that that twitch is back, that that pop he had pre-injury… You see him brimming with confidence,” White said.
With the amount of talent on the roster and Will Levis behind center, the Wildcats have high expectations for this season, and so does Weaver. Calling this defense the best the Wildcats have had since 2018, Weaver will continue to be a defensive leader and aims to break Josh Allen’s sack record.
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health issues, please talk to someone and seek help. If you are unsure where to start, the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) hotline can be reached at 1-800-662-HELP (4357).
In addition to Weaver’s media day conversation, he also sat down with UK Healthcare and you watch below.
Some stories in sports are bigger than the sport itself, as is the case with former Wildcat Ray Davis.
Transferring to Kentucky from Vanderbilt for his senior season of college football in 2023, Davis ran for more than 1,100 yards and set the UK single-season touchdown record with 21 TDs. That included one of the best single-game performances in program history against Florida, where he ran for 280 yards (3rd most in school history) and 4 TDs.
His impact on the field made his story that much more inspiring. Being a part of the California foster care system at the age of 8, facing homelessness at the age of 12, Davis beat the odds to get where he is today, a Pro Bowl selection this past season for the Buffalo Bills.
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That is a story made for Hollywood, and now Hollywood is making it.
Officially reported by the Hollywood Reporter on Monday, “Breakaway Ray”, a movie on Davis’ early life, is in development.
The film will focus on a 9-year-old Davis growing up in San Francisco, navigating poverty with a mother battling addiction and a father behind bars. A poster for Big Brothers Big Sisters changes everything. After Davis makes the call, he gets paired with a young Google employee named Patrick Dowley, and a brotherhood begins that will shape the rest of their lives.
The talent attached to the movie is no afterthought. Gary Fleder, the director behind Runaway Jury, The Express, and Reacher, is set to helm the project from a script by W. Peter Iliff, the screenwriter of Point Break and Varsity Blues. Blue Fox Financing is backing the project, which carries the support of both the Buffalo Bills and Big Brothers Big Sisters of America.
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Fleder emphasizes that the film won’t be a “glossy Hollywood version of a sports legend.” He explains, “It needs grit, urgency and rawness. This film will capture both the harsh realities Ray faced and the quiet power of someone simply showing up.”
“I never would’ve thought in a million years I’d see my story on the big screen,” Davis wrote on X when the news broke. “I’m so grateful to share it on this platform, and this project holds a special place in my heart mentally and emotionally. Beyond excited to see it come to life. All glory to God.”
The film’s team hopes to give attention to the more than 300,000 children currently in the U.S. foster care system. The project will also highlight the importance of mentorship through programs like Big Brothers Big Sisters, which has partnered with the NFL since 2019.
“Breakaway Ray” is scheduled for release in February 2027.
Last year, Champions Blue LLC, the LLC created for UK Athletics, announced the plan to build an entertainment district near Kroger Field to create a new revenue stream. Earlier this week, the school made the next step before the district’s construction, choosing one of four proposals.
On Tuesday, Kevin Locke, UK’s Associate Vice President of planning, design and construction, informed the Champions Blue Board of Governors that the school is moving forward with the “Cooper Connector” plan. This proposal is based on similar districts created near arenas for Ohio State University, Arizona State University, the Green Bay Packers, and the Atlanta Braves.
As an effect of this plan, Bluegrass Community and Technical College will vacate from the school’s original home on Cooper Drive by the end of 2026, a spokesperson told the Lexington Herald-Leader.
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Despite BCTC still holding classes, Kentucky originally took control over the property with an agreement in 2008, after BCTC built a new campus at the former site of Eastern State Hospital, which moved to land owned by UK on the Coldstream Research campus.
The “Cooper Connector” plan includes retail and a hotel conference center, but dining will serve as the anchor, as Locke explained to the board on Tuesday.
“Food and beverage, that would serve as the anchor use for this scheme,” Locke said. “This location needs genuine energy, with multiple retail spots creating critical mass, rather than an isolated, one-off destination. And with the right mix of food, entertainment, and access, this corridor will come alive and attract private investors as well as become an asset for the university, staff, and surrounding community.”
With the plan, there are still some final decisions to be made over the coming weeks, including the precise location for the hotel conference center.
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Perhaps the biggest decision will be whether to include a multi-use facility that would include a new basketball practice facility into the Kroger Field entertainment district or as part of a district to be built near Historic Memorial Coliseum that will include retail, housing, and parking. A conversation study is needed, set to be complete this summer.
A new era for Kentucky Football is underway, as Wildcats head coach Will Stein looks to make a mark in the SEC during the 2026 season. It’s safe to say that things are looking promising when it comes to the recruiting side of things, but Kentucky’s annual spring game would be his chance to show off what he’s really been cooking before the dark skies eventually ruined it all.
For those who weren’t able to attend, this was a matchup between the Blue Team (offense only) and the White Team (defense only), where extra points would be received from offensive conversions, defensive turnovers, and defensive three-and-outs.
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The first half was mostly the White Team’s game, where their defensive efforts would keep them in the lead for most of the first and (shortened) second quarter. For Team Blue, a recieving touchdown from Martels Carter Jr. and an easy end-zone scramble from Notre Dame transfer quarterback Kenny Minchey would keep them in check.
With all of the scoring oppertunities at hand, the second half would also remain relatively neck-and-neck until God brought the rain to Kroger Field and shut the game down halfway through the third quarter.
Quarterback Carr Shane would drop a deep ball to Kenny Darby to secure a 23-18 win for the Blue Team before the whole group of Wildcats bolted to the locker room.
Despite the weather notice that alerted Lexington the day before, Big Blue Nation showed out, and Will Stein called that “the win of the day” coming into the press conference. He spoke about becoming emotional coming out of the tunnel to the Cats’ fight song, saying “he’s never experienced something like that” when coming to play a cut-short spring game.
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Kentucky will start their season at home vs. Youngstown State on Saturday, September 5, but until then, make sure to follow KY Insider on socials for updates throughout the offseason.